My grandfather was a cattle farmer, my dad was a cattle farmer and I recently became a farmer. Purchased my first potted strawberry plant from Home Depot for sixteen dollars and have been diligently watering the plant in my back yard daily. So far, I have successfully grown three delicious, mouthwatering, strawberries. Before you get too impressed with my farmer skills, the plant came with two strawberries almost completely ripe for the picking. Two of my children helped me eat the strawberries as I took a knife and split them evenly amongst the three of us, serving them on a plate. The sweetness was beautiful and unreal compared to store-bought strawberries. We laughed as we realized these strawberries took us weeks to grow and cost us so much for so little fruit.
Where we live it has been raining a lot lately. The weeds are growing faster than the grass or plants. The Lord reminded me of Hebrews 12:14-17
14 Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled; 16 that no one is sexually immoral or unholy like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal. 17 For you know that afterward when he desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no chance to repent, though he sought it with tears.
The Pharisees closely stood before Jesus, who was absolutely perfect love and could not see grace or truth because of the root of bitterness in their heart. Christians with the root of bitterness can refuse to rid themselves of this pattern in relationships. “No one can see the Lord” in other Christians that they know if they have the root of bitterness towards them. WHY? Because bitterness changes the lens of our perception.
In verse 14 we see the answer to uproot bitterness, that Christians are to “strive” for peace. This is not talking about our relationship with God. We have an eternal covenant of peace through Christ Jesus that we can rest and not strive in, this verse is talking about our relationship with people. When the root of bitterness is planted by the enemy in us, the world’s view of grace in us is turned upside down and they cannot see the fruit grace intended. What they see is the “root of bitterness” growing upward at surface level and the fruit of the spirit is hidden below when a plant is upside down in bitterness. In other words, a believer has the gift of righteousness inside but the fruit of righteousness is hidden by bitterness. Is the writer of Hebrews saying those with the root of bitterness can’t obtain God’s grace? Listen grace is the person, Jesus Christ. The answer to overcoming sin is receiving His grace. God will not withhold grace to sinners. Again the context of this verse is about earthly relationships and warning believers to not sell our earthly and family relationships (inheritance) because of this root of bitterness just like Esau did.
“Well, Brandon, all I need is Jesus!” You are correct when talking of a relationship with the Father and to enter Heaven. It is not Biblical nor possible to live a Godly life without relationships in the Body of Christ. This is the inheritance (Christian relationships) the enemy wants you and I to sell. Satan was stripped of power and authority by Jesus in His death and resurrection (Colossians 2:15), so His weapons today are lying and accusing Christians (Revelation 12:10). Why would Satan want to plant bitterness in Christians? So they uproot relationships intended by God to be a blessing. I have watched husbands and wives cry as they lost their spouses to bitterness. So often those tears cannot change the fact they sold their birthright. I have watched Christian fathers cry over their sons and daughters who won’t speak to them for years because of bitterness. If the enemy can create a pattern in our lives of receiving bitterness without striving for peace, the results are devastating to the Body of Christ.
Ephesians 1:16-18
16 I do not cease to give thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers, 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of him,18 having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints,
Notice that the word “riches of his inheritance” is in the saints! Why would God supply all our needs according to His riches when He hid his riches in the saints? Maybe because God knew that Christians might believe the lie from the enemy that they could isolate themselves, and be okay with just them and Jesus (Proverbs 18:1). Well, Brandon, I forgave them and walked away. This is the world’s definition of forgiveness but not what Christ did for you and I. Jesus forgave all your past, present, and future sins (Colossians 2:13) and will never leave you nor forsake you, even when you are bitter towards Him, His love remains the same. Freely you can receive grace from Jesus any time anywhere. What if we freely gave grace to other believers as well to uproot the weeds of bitterness in our life? Then the world would see the fruit of righteousness and not miss out on the same grace we all need!
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